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D-ar Mita.
I was a student of English Department of DU and had to discontinue my studies because of a nurologlcal disease I have been afflicted with for the last five years. A year ago I fell in love with a girl and she responded although knowing about my Illness I told her right fmm the beginning that she cannot share her life with me till I recovered. She has tried her best but I haue not Improved Decause of this I am no more interested to continue relations with her. Moreover, my parents don't like her also. She Is not willing to listen to any reason. Presently we are not In touch though, she tries to railed me sometimes. What should I do. please advise
D. Hossain. Dhaka
Dear Hossain,
It seems you have other reasons for cutting off relations with her than Just your Illness. I don't think you arc inter ested In her any longer and the reasons you now give arc Just excuses Making a commitment to spend the life together is a very serious one and should be based on very solid understanding and respect for each other If you arc no longer In terested In continuing relations with her then you should tell her directly and frankly and not give excuses such as your III ness. her stubbornness and your parents attitude.
Dear Mita.
Following the trace of an anonymous In May 15 issue of your 'MITA' section. I want to say that same thing has hap pened tn my life I fell in love with my cousin I uncle's daugh ter) and we plunged so madly tn loue that we never think of being apart and want to get married. Doth of our families know nothing about our qffatr I think, when the questton of marriage will arise, then there will be problem. I don't care for the social barriers and our family relationships, but worry about our postmarrtage qffalr I was acquainted with a couple who were cousins. The w/fe gave birth to an abnormal child. Doctor says that it happens because of her parent s Wood. Is there any biological explanation about that? /tease. Mila, help me out. Another thing, would you mind telling your real name? Eagerly watting for your reply.
Moatl. Dhaka
Denr Moat).
I am afraid It Is true that, marriage among coming cousins docs sometimes produce abnormal ofl spring Ora cannot be IOO% accurate but there Is ■ slight risk To overcome thts
problem, couples can take a blood test prior to starting a family. With modern medicine and diagnosis, anything ab normal can be detected very early. It Is preferable that cousins don t marry each other but if you feel so strongly about each other, then go ahead. Just be awnre of the problem which might arise, and have the strength to face it.
Dear Mita.
We haue been married for five years and have two chtdren My husband is a very kind and gentle person but very uncom promising when he is angry. It takes him a long time to get over his anger and when I complain the situation gets worse. What should I do? It causes strain and friction tn the relation ship.
Shefali. Narayangary
Dear Shelah,
There arc many people who cannot recover from an unpleasant incident as promptly as others do Thts ts a personality trait and very hard to change The worst thing you can do is point It out Just when he Is angry If It does not upset you to much Just let It pass for the moment Bring It up later, tn a more congenial atmosphere Discuss the event that led to the unpleasantness In a frank non-threatening and nonaccusing way. Thts will not change him overnight, but over the years will certainly have some good effects. ’
Dear Mita.
Recently. I hate been losing a lot of hair to the extent that I might become bald soon. What can I do? I had such beautiful hair. but It started shedding since I was 16 and note I am 29 Is there any remedy? I have consulted many doctors but it has not helped What do you suggest?
Dipu Dhaka
Dear Dipu,
losing hair has become a very common phenomenon, not only among men but women too. and now a days we do come across semi bald women. The reason la a mixture of heredity, food habits. weather and care Our doctor savs Since the hair cells are mode of protein, a high protein diet often helps. Hair loss is also due to excessive tension or taking of strong medicine Sometimes vitamin A and D have been known to be helpful.